Lucky in Love: Building a Strong and Lasting Marriage 締結美滿婚姻：2026 結婚吉日

Consultant 顧問: Master Paul Ng 風水大師伍子明
Photography: Tim Chin
As Featured in The Art of Celebration Annual Edition No.2

“Choosing an auspicious wedding date is important, as it can contribute to a smooth and peaceful start to your marriage. While some may view this as a cultural practice, it is believed by many that selecting the right date can set a positive tone for the future.”

— Master Paul Ng

Marriage is one of life’s most significant milestones. It is not only about continuing family lineage but also about fostering meaningful companionship. However, in today’s society, mismatched relationships have become increasingly common, leading to unnecessary domestic conflicts and a rising number of divorces. All too often, couples seem to forget their wedding vows shortly after marriage.

So, how can we avoid these pitfalls and build a strong, lasting marriage?

婚姻是人生中的重要里程碑，不僅關乎家族的延續，更代表著兩人攜手共築一段深刻且有意義的關係。然而，在當今社會，婚姻不合的情況日益普遍，導致許多不必要的家庭衝突，甚至以離婚收場。許多新人在婚後不久，便逐漸忘記當初許下的誓言。那麼，我們該如何避開常見的陷阱，建立一段穩固而長久的婚姻呢？

Personalities 性格觀察

When evaluating a person, try not to focus solely on surface-level impressions, which can be misleading. Instead, observe the following:

• Reactions in stressful situations

• How they treat others (both superiors and subordinates)

• Their core values in life

• Their ambitions and goals

• How they treat you when you make mistakes or when tensions arise

• And other behavioral traits

婚姻關係的長久與否，很大程度取決於雙方的性格與相處模式。與其只看表面，更應細心觀察以下幾點：

• 對方在壓力下的表現

• 他們如何對待他人，無論地位高低

• 人生價值觀

• 志向與目標

• 當您犯錯或情緒波動時，他們的反應

這些日常細節比言語更能反映一個人的本質。

Compatibility Matching 合婚配對

If possible, obtain the other person’s birth date—and ideally, their birth time—and consult an experienced practitioner for a thorough compatibility analysis. There are some general preliminary screening guidelines based on birth years, but keep in mind that exceptions may apply once the birth month, day, and time are factored into the assessment.

在彼此同意下，可請專業命理師根據雙方的出生年月日及時間進行合婚分析。對許多人而言，這能帶來安心與祝福。以下為常見的生肖配對建議，具體情況還需結合出生日期與時間作全面考量：

Best Matches:

• Boar – Rabbit – Sheep

• Snake – Rooster – Ox

• Monkey – Rat – Dragon

• Tiger – Horse – Dog

Good Matches:

• Rat – Ox

• Tiger – Boar

• Rabbit – Dog

• Dragon – Rooster

• Snake – Monkey

• Horse – Sheep

Bad Matches:

• Rat – Horse

• Ox – Sheep

• Tiger – Monkey

• Rabbit – Rooster

• Dragon – Dog

• Snake – Boar

最佳配對：

• 豬、兔、羊

• 蛇、雞、牛

• 猴、鼠、龍

• 虎、馬、狗

合適度較高的配對：

• 鼠、牛

• 虎、豬

• 兔、狗

• 龍、雞

• 蛇、猴

• 馬、羊

需更多包容與理解的組合：

• 鼠、馬

• 牛、羊

• 虎、猴

• 兔、雞

• 龍、狗

• 蛇、豬

Wedding Size 婚禮規模

It is essential to assess your financial capacity when determining the scale of your wedding. Never overspend beyond your means, as this can result in significant debt. A wedding can often be elegant and enjoyable without straining your budget. For example, wedding dresses can be rented. However, if your budget permits, consider making the celebration as special and memorable as possible—after all, a wedding is a once-in-a-lifetime occasion!

婚禮規劃應量力而為，切勿因過度支持而造成經濟壓力。一場溫馨的婚禮不需鋪張，也能成為美好回憶。例如，婚紗可以選擇租借。當然，如預算允許，不妨令婚禮變得更特別與難忘。畢竟，婚禮是一生一次的重要時刻！

Choosing the Wedding Date 婚禮擇日

Choosing an auspicious wedding date is important, as it can contribute to a smooth and peaceful start to your marriage. While some may view this as a cultural practice, it is believed by many that selecting the right date can set a positive tone for the future.

選擇吉日結婚在華人傳統中有其特殊意義。可請教專業師傅或參考農曆黃曆，為婚禮選定良辰吉日。雖然有些人將此視為文化習俗，但許多人相信，一個好日子能為婚姻帶來好兆頭，開啟平順與和諧的生活。

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Conclusion 結語

Choosing the right wedding date is an important part of ensuring a harmonious and successful marriage. While the practice of selecting an auspicious date is deeply rooted in tradition, it can offer peace of mind for couples who embrace it. Along with the date, considering factors like personal compatibility, values, and the overall wedding experience are key to starting your new life together on a positive note. Ultimately, a wedding is about celebrating love and commitment, and whatever date you choose, may it be the start of a joyful and fulfilling journey for both of you.

Note: The above wedding rituals and Feng Shui guidelines are for reference only. Please do not be overly superstitious.

選擇合適的結婚日期，是邁向婚姻和諧與幸福的重要一步。對於願意遵循傳統文化的新人而言，擇日不僅是一種傳統習俗，更能帶來心安與祝福。除了選定良辰吉日，雙方的性格契合、價值觀一致，以及整體婚禮的規劃與體驗，都是共築幸福新生活的關鍵。婚禮的本質在於見證與慶祝愛與承諾，無論您選擇哪一天，願那天成為您們人生新篇章的美好起點。

注：以上有關風水習俗說法，僅供參考，切勿過度迷信。

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